I thought I would feel the loss so heavy again, it doesn't help when I feel the loss of another special man.
I am not really sure of what happened, only I think Stephen is much happier.
Losing Jeff was hard enough and such a blow to my system as it happened so fast. Jeff was discovered with testicular cancer on August , one testie removed in September and passed away after progressive Chemotherapy December 13th all in 2006. Cancer being in the lungs as well.
Jeff, I believe knew he was dying and like his style, he felt I was better off not knowing.
So many doctors over the years have told me that his death was "Hit and Run"
That was a term I was told in Grief Therapy. A group I signed up for after my sister dragged me into kicking and crying.
An older woman were among our group. There were only two of us that was young widows.
She decided that the one young widow would get married and I wouldn't because I'm wasn't that attractive.
After that, I decided to give that group up. It almost over anyway.
It just got worse for me. I know though for the record. Grief Therapy helps a great deal and for those wonderful folks it worked well.
Even though it's been ten years ago since Jeff died, just feels as rough as it did then.
Nothing has changed. I am a single mother and haven't been sexually active since my husband passing. My choice.
Even when I was married , being intimate with Jeff was rough. A long story. I loved him, don't get me wrong.
Looking back has been so difficult and still to this day, I have trouble looking at Jeff's pictures.
Wish I could feel encouraged o
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